I can always afford to love.
There is never a time or circumstance where loving is less safe than going to war.
War is hell. I may preserve my body from attack by choosing war, but when I do, even as I repel the attack, I live in hell.
Love is heaven. I may open my body to attack by choosing love, but when I do, even in the midst of the attack, I live in heaven.
Love is always more affordable than war.
Always.