We judge others harshly because we judge ourselves harshly (not in all areas...just the ones in which we find fault in others).
We do not deserve our harsh treatment.
We are whole. Our wholeness is a gift from, and to, the universe. Make peace with it.
When I can allow my wholeness to flourish, the world suddenly opens up: people miraculously become smarter, kinder, easier to understand and, in all the most important ways, divine just as they are.
Just like you.
Just like me.